This time before V day is set up as a time for pure pressure it doesn’t matter who you are what sort of relationship you have or don’t have V day is the biggest day of *OH SHIT* am I doing everything right???? or more likely what the hell am I doing wrong!!
V day is the biggest commercial day of the year, why you ask? Because it commercializes everyone’s insecurities....Yep weather you are single, soon to be single, happily married or unhappily married the commercialism of V-day has a target for you.
Anti-Valentines Day Parties, forgive me and I love you gifts of every possible stagey.
So when you ask yourself why do I feel like I am being hit by a bus; its commercialism blame it on someone wanting your money not your sanity!! If they wanted our sanitary to stay intact they would not be making money off my red beating sometimes bleeding heart and both childcare and therapy would be free!! Ok so would deserts and shoes :-)
As you, me and everyone else travels into this Saturday lets get real…no matter who you are your going to feel a bit of anticipation of stress before Vday it’s the same anticipation you get before you try anything unpredictable. Unpredictability makes us all a bit freaked out. My solution this year “make a plan on what I have not what I wish” ….change the unpredictability!!!
I have a life that is mine, I own it, I make it, I hate it and I love it but it’s my story and commercialism should not make me feel that a bus is coming to smack me down…NOPE I won’t change the discovery of my life just to fit in this Vday…So young or Experienced we all know this day comes once a year and we all know its unpredictable so plan your day.
On your mark …….get set………….GO…………… it will be GONE by Sunday and those magical fairy tale TV couples will be stuck with no more then what you, me and our friends have…..pulsing beating hearts in a real life story.
